I started this as single post about Jacob wrestling with the angel (who most people consider to be Jesus). The point of the article was that we need to adopt the attitude of “hanging onto Jesus.” But I decided that while most who come here know the story, there may be visitors who do not know the whole story about Jacob and I originally was going to give a paragraph or two as background. I quickly found that wasn’t going to be satisfactory, so this is the first of two parts.
The story of Jacob is a complex story that is filled with intrigue and double-dealing, so let’s start at the beginning. Soon after Isaac and Rebekah were married she discovered she was barren, so Isaac prayed to God for children and God provided. This is a perfect example of intercessory prayer: Isaac prayed for Rebekah. This is part of the husband’s duty to their family … not only to pray for them, but pray with them. Husbands, your wife will look at you in a whole new light if you suggest setting aside a time of prayer each day for the two of you to pray together. Your marriage will be renewed and take on a whole new dimension. Do it!
Her pregnancy produced twin boys and it was competition from the get-go between those two. Even while in the womb they wrestled and at birth Jacob grabbed hold of Esau’s heel, following as if to fight for the distinction of being the first-born. Gen 25:21-26Gen 25:21-26
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21 And Isaac intreated the LORD for his wife, because she was barren: and the LORD was intreated of him, and Rebekah his wife conceived.
22 And the children struggled together within her; and she said, If it be so, why am I thus? And she went to enquire of the LORD.
23 And the LORD said unto her, Two nations are in thy womb, and two manner of people shall be separated from thy bowels; and the one people shall be stronger than the other people; and the elder shall serve the younger.
24 And when her days to be delivered were fulfilled, behold, there were twins in her womb.
25 And the first came out red, all over like an hairy garment; and they called his name Esau.
26 And after that came his brother out, and his hand took hold on Esau's heel; and his name was called Jacob: and Isaac was threescore years old when she bare them.
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The Birthright Sale
Each parent had their favorite, too: Isaac loved Esau and Rebekah loved Jacob. When they were grown, Jacob had become a farmer and Esau a hunter.
Esau came home one day and was famished to the point of fainting. Jacob was boiling a pot of soup and Esau asked for a bowl. Jacob saw his opportunity for some competition and asked him to sell his birthright for a bowl of soup. Esau, being hungry to the point of death, couldn’t see what use a birthright would be anyway, so he sold it. The birthright was very important in ancient times. It dictated one’s status and wealth in life. Gen 25:26-30Gen 25:26-30
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26 And after that came his brother out, and his hand took hold on Esau's heel; and his name was called Jacob: and Isaac was threescore years old when she bare them.
27 And the boys grew: and Esau was a cunning hunter, a man of the field; and Jacob was a plain man, dwelling in tents.
28 And Isaac loved Esau, because he did eat of his venison: but Rebekah loved Jacob. he...: Heb. venison was in his mouth
29 And Jacob sod pottage: and Esau came from the field, and he was faint:
30 And Esau said to Jacob, Feed me, I pray thee, with that same red pottage; for I am faint: therefore was his name called Edom. with...: Heb. with that red, with that red pottage Edom: that is Red
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32 And Esau said, Behold, I am at the point to die: and what profit shall this birthright do to me? at...: Heb. going to die
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Jacob Grabs the Blessing
Now Isaac was nearing death. He was blind and confined to his bed when he called Esau, asking him to make his favorite venison meal so he could bless him and pass on the birthright. Rebekah wanted Jacob to have the blessing, so, with the help of his mother, and quite a lot of deception on her part, Jacob received the birthright. Gen 27:1-29Gen 27:1-29
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1 And it came to pass, that when Isaac was old, and his eyes were dim, so that he could not see, he called Esau his eldest son, and said unto him, My son: and he said unto him, Behold, here am I.
2 And he said, Behold now, I am old, I know not the day of my death:
3 Now therefore take, I pray thee, thy weapons, thy quiver and thy bow, and go out to the field, and take me some venison; take: Heb. hunt
4 And make me savoury meat, such as I love, and bring it to me, that I may eat; that my soul may bless thee before I die.
5 And Rebekah heard when Isaac spake to Esau his son. And Esau went to the field to hunt for venison, and to bring it.
6 And Rebekah spake unto Jacob her son, saying, Behold, I heard thy father speak unto Esau thy brother, saying,
7 Bring me venison, and make me savoury meat, that I may eat, and bless thee before the LORD before my death.
8 Now therefore, my son, obey my voice according to that which I command thee.
9 Go now to the flock, and fetch me from thence two good kids of the goats; and I will make them savoury meat for thy father, such as he loveth:
10 And thou shalt bring it to thy father, that he may eat, and that he may bless thee before his death.
11 And Jacob said to Rebekah his mother, Behold, Esau my brother is a hairy man, and I am a smooth man:
12 My father peradventure will feel me, and I shall seem to him as a deceiver; and I shall bring a curse upon me, and not a blessing.
13 And his mother said unto him, Upon me be thy curse, my son: only obey my voice, and go fetch me them.
14 And he went, and fetched, and brought them to his mother: and his mother made savoury meat, such as his father loved.
15 And Rebekah took goodly raiment of her eldest son Esau, which were with her in the house, and put them upon Jacob her younger son: goodly: Heb. desirable
16 And she put the skins of the kids of the goats upon his hands, and upon the smooth of his neck:
17 And she gave the savoury meat and the bread, which she had prepared, into the hand of her son Jacob.
18 And he came unto his father, and said, My father: and he said, Here am I; who art thou, my son?
19 And Jacob said unto his father, I am Esau thy firstborn; I have done according as thou badest me: arise, I pray thee, sit and eat of my venison, that thy soul may bless me.
20 And Isaac said unto his son, How is it that thou hast found it so quickly, my son? And he said, Because the LORD thy God brought it to me. to me: Heb. before me
21 And Isaac said unto Jacob, Come near, I pray thee, that I may feel thee, my son, whether thou be my very son Esau or not.
22 And Jacob went near unto Isaac his father; and he felt him, and said, The voice is Jacob's voice, but the hands are the hands of Esau.
23 And he discerned him not, because his hands were hairy, as his brother Esau's hands: so he blessed him.
24 And he said, Art thou my very son Esau? And he said, I am.
25 And he said, Bring it near to me, and I will eat of my son's venison, that my soul may bless thee. And he brought it near to him, and he did eat: and he brought him wine, and he drank.
26 And his father Isaac said unto him, Come near now, and kiss me, my son.
27 And he came near, and kissed him: and he smelled the smell of his raiment, and blessed him, and said, See, the smell of my son is as the smell of a field which the LORD hath blessed:
28 Therefore God give thee of the dew of heaven, and the fatness of the earth, and plenty of corn and wine:
29 Let people serve thee, and nations bow down to thee: be lord over thy brethren, and let thy mother's sons bow down to thee: cursed be every one that curseth thee, and blessed be he that blesseth thee.
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This is the last sentence in the blessing:
Let people serve thee, and nations bow down to thee: be lord over thy brethren, and let thy mother’s sons bow down to thee: cursed be every one that curseth thee, and blessed be he that blesseth thee.
The phrase I have emphasized is important for us, as gentiles, to understand. This is a promise given to Jacob that affects us today. This is the blessing over Israel which we need to follow if we want to enjoy Yahweh’s blessings. Israel was chosen by Yahweh to be a nation of priests. This passage affirms that we need to do everything we can to assist and support Israel because Yahweh never changes and His promises are never revoked.
Esau Loses the Blessing
Shortly after Jacob had exited his father’s tent, Esau arrived with the venison his father had asked of him. Isaac informed him that he had already given his blessing. He didn’t say that he gave it to Jacob – I don’t think he knew who had received it. He only said he had been tricked. Esau pressed him for the blessing, asking, “Have you only one blessing?” But Isaac was firm: He had given the blessing of the firstborn to Jacob who was born after Esau and it could not be taken back. Gen 27:31-40Gen 27:31-40
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31 And he also had made savoury meat, and brought it unto his father, and said unto his father, Let my father arise, and eat of his son's venison, that thy soul may bless me.
32 And Isaac his father said unto him, Who art thou? And he said, I am thy son, thy firstborn Esau.
33 And Isaac trembled very exceedingly, and said, Who? where is he that hath taken venison, and brought it me, and I have eaten of all before thou camest, and have blessed him? yea, and he shall be blessed. trembled...: Heb. trembled with a great trembling greatly taken: Heb. hunted
34 And when Esau heard the words of his father, he cried with a great and exceeding bitter cry, and said unto his father, Bless me, even me also, O my father.
35 And he said, Thy brother came with subtilty, and hath taken away thy blessing.
36 And he said, Is not he rightly named Jacob? for he hath supplanted me these two times: he took away my birthright; and, behold, now he hath taken away my blessing. And he said, Hast thou not reserved a blessing for me? Jacob: that is, A supplanter
37 And Isaac answered and said unto Esau, Behold, I have made him thy lord, and all his brethren have I given to him for servants; and with corn and wine have I sustained him: and what shall I do now unto thee, my son? sustained: or, supported
38 And Esau said unto his father, Hast thou but one blessing, my father? bless me, even me also, O my father. And Esau lifted up his voice, and wept.
39 And Isaac his father answered and said unto him, Behold, thy dwelling shall be the fatness of the earth, and of the dew of heaven from above; the fatness: or, of the fatness
40 And by thy sword shalt thou live, and shalt serve thy brother; and it shall come to pass when thou shalt have the dominion, that thou shalt break his yoke from off thy neck.
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Do you remember Genesis 25:23Genesis 25:23
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23 And the LORD said unto her, Two nations are in thy womb, and two manner of people shall be separated from thy bowels; and the one people shall be stronger than the other people; and the elder shall serve the younger.
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And the LORD said unto her, Two nations are in thy womb, and two manner of people shall be separated from thy bowels; and the one people shall be stronger than the other people; and the elder shall serve the younger.
It is also interesting that once the blessing was given, even though he was not the first-born, it could not be changed. At least Isaac refused to amend it.
Esau’s Plan for Revenge
Esau was hateful mad about this and he vowed to kill Jacob after Isaac died. Rebekah heard of his oath and decided Jacob needed to get away as soon as possible. She decided the best place would be with her brother Laban – a long way away. She raised an alarm in Isaac’s mind saying the only available women were Canaanite women and that she didn’t want Jacob to marry one of them, but that he should travel to her brother’s land and find a wife among them. Isaac dutifully blessed Jacob and sent him on his way. Gen 27:42-46Gen 27:42-46
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42 And these words of Esau her elder son were told to Rebekah: and she sent and called Jacob her younger son, and said unto him, Behold, thy brother Esau, as touching thee, doth comfort himself, purposing to kill thee.
43 Now therefore, my son, obey my voice; and arise, flee thou to Laban my brother to Haran;
44 And tarry with him a few days, until thy brother's fury turn away;
45 Until thy brother's anger turn away from thee, and he forget that which thou hast done to him: then I will send, and fetch thee from thence: why should I be deprived also of you both in one day?
46 And Rebekah said to Isaac, I am weary of my life because of the daughters of Heth: if Jacob take a wife of the daughters of Heth, such as these which are of the daughters of the land, what good shall my life do me?
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1 And Isaac called Jacob, and blessed him, and charged him, and said unto him, Thou shalt not take a wife of the daughters of Canaan.
2 Arise, go to Padanaram, to the house of Bethuel thy mother's father; and take thee a wife from thence of the daughters of Laban thy mother's brother.
3 And God Almighty bless thee, and make thee fruitful, and multiply thee, that thou mayest be a multitude of people; a multitude...: Heb. an assembly of people
4 And give thee the blessing of Abraham, to thee, and to thy seed with thee; that thou mayest inherit the land wherein thou art a stranger, which God gave unto Abraham. wherein...: Heb. of thy sojournings
5 And Isaac sent away Jacob: and he went to Padanaram unto Laban, son of Bethuel the Syrian, the brother of Rebekah, Jacob's and Esau's mother.
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In his fury, Esau saw that it would displease his father if Jacob were to take a Canaanite wife, so he went to Ishmael and took two wives of the Canaanites. He wanted to hurt his father while at the same time show him how much he had hurt his eldest son! I think that’s called “cutting off one’s nose to spite the face.” Yes, he was bent on getting some sort of vengeance on his parents at the expense of the good of his own life. Gen 28:6-9Gen 28:6-9
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6 When Esau saw that Isaac had blessed Jacob, and sent him away to Padanaram, to take him a wife from thence; and that as he blessed him he gave him a charge, saying, Thou shalt not take a wife of the daughters of Canaan;
7 And that Jacob obeyed his father and his mother, and was gone to Padanaram;
8 And Esau seeing that the daughters of Canaan pleased not Isaac his father; pleased...: Heb. were evil in the eyes, etc
9 Then went Esau unto Ishmael, and took unto the wives which he had Mahalath the daughter of Ishmael Abraham's son, the sister of Nebajoth, to be his wife. Mahalath: or, Bashemath
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We’ll leave the story there for this post. Part II, the follow-up, is close on the heels of this one.
Thank you for reading.